Disable alltalk completely and lower the respawn time.

[Kwaurtz]

Seriously, the game was balanced towards using 20 second respawn timers and for talking amongst your teammates and strategizing, not spamming respawns every 4 seconds.

[Boxman]

I played tonight, and I found the game alright as far as balance goes.
I think you're just a bit ticked from getting raped in the ass by people from spawn.

Also, Kwaurtz, if you would've read Slyder's post, wholegrain said he'd turn off alltalk by default.